Dear Y. W. S
Both of you were shaky ever since the separation couple months
before. And have no contact. And then you both were together again. She
visited you. And the love was in the air.
Before she left to goes back to her town, you told her that you wanted this Long distance relationaship work out and wanted to see her again, so you could assess your relationship.
But, the distance, the different faith between both of you were unresolved.
That’s understandable. You were madly in love with her and deeply involved with her after several years of looking and waiting the girl of your dream, perhaps and you had no idea that she was her, who is diffrent with you. You know what I mean.
On the other hand, she did everything possible to try and win you back. She worked hard to convince you that she was genuinely sorry, that she had made a terrible mistake by telling the problem (your problem) to your friends and that she loved you.
She issued a public apology and went on an all-out campaign to get back together with you, everywhere.
Now she is “bummed” and was “blindsided” by your decision to turn your silence into a trial separation. But she is “determined to make it [your relationship] work no matter what it takes,”
Nevertheless, as determined as she is to make it work, she’s missing you terribly, especially since you’ve been “barely picking up” her calls and hardly “responding to her messages,”.
She wants to visit you but her handlers have convinced her to hold off, so instead she’s written you an emotional love letter.
Get herself into terrible love story.
She is pining for you. She knows she’s responsible for messing up what was once a close and loving relationship. She knows she has no one to blame but herself.
You have always been a devoted boyfriend who has never flirted with or as much as ever really looked at another woman since you’ve been involved with her.
But the problem is that she is seriously holding out hope that “everything between her and you will work out for the best,”. And she is giving you “space.”
We hear that she was actually ready for marriage before you surprised her with the trial separation.
Now I can certainly understand how you wouldn’t be ready to make that commitment to her after your doubt about your differentiate betweet you both, but I really think that if you’re sure you will break up with her after your 'March with love in the air'- and then couples months separation, then you should do it NOW.
In other words, if you are just using the diffrentiate between you both as an excuse to put off an emotional breakup for couple months, then that’s just not fair or honest.
It may be terribly difficult to break up with her for many reasons, including not wanting to hurt her, but keeping her hanging on isn’t fair either.
Keeping her in a holding pattern for months when you have no intention of carrying on your romance would be torture for her.
So— if you know for a certainty that you are over your romance, as heartbreaking as it is, you must tell her!
Find a way of course to tell her in person, but don’t make her wait holding out hope, for months.
You Have To Make Up Your Mind Sooner Or Later!
On the other hand, if you genuinely are uncertain and undecided then take your time. But you should probably relent soon and let her visit so both of you can see how you feel!
Hey— you’re a great guy and I know you wouldn’t want to hurt her intentionally.
You probably don’t realize what a tough time she is going through right now, but think about it. If it is over for you, it’s better to break the painful news to her — sooner than later!
Sincerely, your both fellas.
Before she left to goes back to her town, you told her that you wanted this Long distance relationaship work out and wanted to see her again, so you could assess your relationship.
But, the distance, the different faith between both of you were unresolved.
That’s understandable. You were madly in love with her and deeply involved with her after several years of looking and waiting the girl of your dream, perhaps and you had no idea that she was her, who is diffrent with you. You know what I mean.
On the other hand, she did everything possible to try and win you back. She worked hard to convince you that she was genuinely sorry, that she had made a terrible mistake by telling the problem (your problem) to your friends and that she loved you.
She issued a public apology and went on an all-out campaign to get back together with you, everywhere.
Now she is “bummed” and was “blindsided” by your decision to turn your silence into a trial separation. But she is “determined to make it [your relationship] work no matter what it takes,”
Nevertheless, as determined as she is to make it work, she’s missing you terribly, especially since you’ve been “barely picking up” her calls and hardly “responding to her messages,”.
She wants to visit you but her handlers have convinced her to hold off, so instead she’s written you an emotional love letter.
Get herself into terrible love story.
She is pining for you. She knows she’s responsible for messing up what was once a close and loving relationship. She knows she has no one to blame but herself.
You have always been a devoted boyfriend who has never flirted with or as much as ever really looked at another woman since you’ve been involved with her.
But the problem is that she is seriously holding out hope that “everything between her and you will work out for the best,”. And she is giving you “space.”
We hear that she was actually ready for marriage before you surprised her with the trial separation.
Now I can certainly understand how you wouldn’t be ready to make that commitment to her after your doubt about your differentiate betweet you both, but I really think that if you’re sure you will break up with her after your 'March with love in the air'- and then couples months separation, then you should do it NOW.
In other words, if you are just using the diffrentiate between you both as an excuse to put off an emotional breakup for couple months, then that’s just not fair or honest.
It may be terribly difficult to break up with her for many reasons, including not wanting to hurt her, but keeping her hanging on isn’t fair either.
Keeping her in a holding pattern for months when you have no intention of carrying on your romance would be torture for her.
So— if you know for a certainty that you are over your romance, as heartbreaking as it is, you must tell her!
Find a way of course to tell her in person, but don’t make her wait holding out hope, for months.
You Have To Make Up Your Mind Sooner Or Later!
On the other hand, if you genuinely are uncertain and undecided then take your time. But you should probably relent soon and let her visit so both of you can see how you feel!
Hey— you’re a great guy and I know you wouldn’t want to hurt her intentionally.
You probably don’t realize what a tough time she is going through right now, but think about it. If it is over for you, it’s better to break the painful news to her — sooner than later!
Sincerely, your both fellas.
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